One of the biggest fears of anyone in a long-term, committed relationship is finding out that their partner has been unfaithful. It’s a dilemma as old as time and today’s technology makes it possible to cheat in a whole new variety of ways but the flipside to this is that the same technology also leaves a digital footprint making it easier for the cheater to be caught red-handed.
There are several heart wrenching tales of infidelity across the Internet and some are stories from loved or dear ones. This is a story that anyone who has been with an unfaithful partner can relate to and it is also a wake-up call for everyone in such a dilemma.
Here’s Alicia’s story…
We started dating in 2014 and after a year, we got married in 2015. He got promoted at work in 2018 and that is when I started noticing changes. He got busier, missed a lot of date nights, family dinners and events. He even went for the entire weekend sometimes and which often called business trips. From the time we were dating, I always had access to his phone, I thought I had his password but I never snooped on his phone and so, I didn’t even know when he changed the password.
It came as a rude shock when I tried to check his phone and the password I knew wasn’t working nor going through.
I talked to him about it and he said he had confidential work stuff on his phone and as a result, he had to change his password and wouldn’t give me the new one.
I knew something deeper was going on but I had no proof so I couldn’t even confront him about anything.
His lackadaisical attitude to our marriage got worse and it felt like were we two strangers sharing a house.
Again I spoke to him about it and he apologized and blamed it on having a lot of work responsibilities to handle. He made me feel like I was imagining the distance in our relationship and blowing the situation out of proportion.
So, I opened up to my sister about it, she was the one who did some research and decided that it was best if I hired a Private Investigator who could get me the details of what my husband was up to with evidence.. It took a lot of convincing, but I finally gave in.
One week after contacting the Private Investigator and making payment, I finally had proof of my husbands infidelity. My gut feeling was right. He was being unfaithful. I received all the WhatsApp messages, pictures, and videos that my husband exchanged with his lover. It was a very painful discovery, but I finally had peace of mind. I had the proof I needed to get out of that emotionally abusive and draining marriage.
I got the location for his next meeting with his lover and I showed up there. I caught him in the lady’s house, she was pregnant. I served him with the divorce papers days after the incident. I then moved to a different city with my kids. I’m happier and super excited about the rest of my future.
Infidelity is more common than you think and sometimes, there are no signs to show whether your partner is cheating or not. But always trust your gut and make sure you find a way to get evidence before confrontation. Whether or not you choose to forgive and continue the relationship is up to you.
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